In the blink of eyes, it's going to be Year 2012, and finally, my 4th year in huayi secondary school.
Time pass, freaking fast. i mean seriously yeah.
12 months ago, i'm still a secondary three student, getting used to my new class 3E2, getting used to the subjects, getting used to many things which make us all unhappy etc.
But, i really do hope that we could all end 2012 happily, without any worries nor those unhappy stuffs we have all encountered. New year ; let's really try to forget everything we do not want to remember (sad/unhappy/angry memories!)
To all my friends and people whom i know, wish you guys have a good and happy last day of the year, and all the best for your future!
and also, i would like to say that friends are the people in life that we can trust and enjoy life with, i'm sure everybody treat their friends as one of the their really important person, whether anot they have their own boyfriend/girlfriend, even though sometimes things might get wrong and misunderstanding resulting in conflict among friends, in the end of the day, we are still friends.
Personally, i would think that if you think you want to be in good term with others, you yourself should also do some changes to yourself to get into the good term with others. (friendship is never a one way thing, it's a two-way thing which we ourselves and others must make an effort to maintain it.)
and, i think trusting in friends is one thing that maintain the friendship.
I know we would always think that there will be a real friend who stand by your side, and friend who walks in when you are only in good condition. But think, there would surely be someone to share your feelings.
Look around and see who are the people you can trust, there would surely be.
Secondly, i would think that sometimes friends might say stuffs that makes us feel offended etc, but then think, if we didn't do it well or doing it as what we like (even though it's wrong, like for example, your friend smoke but you advised that friend not to smoke cos it's harmful to our body, your friend might not like it and will feel offended but as a friend, you cant left your friend to die off right?) So yeah, it's the same meaning/reason why they commented on things that you should make changes to yourself etc, it's like saving you for the goodness sake. (even if you think it's alrdy okay, but to others, that's just sign of arrogant, making everybody's life suffer, that's a selfish thought of you.)
and i think some things, you know that some people are just joking with their words, or even know their personality is just this, you can don't take serious about these words, it's like just in joking manner of suan-ing.
People had make themselves to change their mindset etc to suit your thinking, you yourself should make a change in your mindset to suit others' thinking. This is like a basic courtesy of friend and human relationship i would think. We don't just live ourselves by the forest or what, somemore this is a city, it's filled with people that could be all sort of people around. Different personality, different mindset, different interest, different attitude.
地球不是为你而转的；相仿的，凡是什么事我们也都要想想其他人的感受。
and lastly, respect people, people would respect you. If you do things that people cannot understand why the hell you do that or the ways of doing a thing well isn't correct, you don't deserve to earn the respect of other people. Well, you might say that other people did not respect you first, yes, but you should think about it yourself why we do that. Yeah, maybe it's other people who do wrong first, but at least, respect someone who is older than you and have live longer than you in this earth, they know more things than you for freaking sake.
okay, i think it's obvious who i'm talking about, i'm not badmouthing that person or anyone.
I thought time would like at least make some things to cool down, but it seems like it's not.
okay, i wouldn't talk much about this.
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So back to the topic, New year resolution! :D
I shall make a list, oh yeah~~
- Do well for 2012 GCE O LEVEL - aiming : A1 for chinese, A-maths, e-maths (this is definitely a MUST FOR ME, if not i can really kill myself!!!) , A2 for physics (i think i aim too high ._. but if i aim low i sure get lower~), B3 for combined humanities (need to diedie memorise), B3 for English (LOL, i aim too high also, but i think i aim low i will get lower! D: ), B3 for Chemistry (aim too high...) and last art... i don't know, really don't know cos i don't know if i can make a good coursework for the paper 1, and the painting for paper 2 D:
- Improving my playing skills - my tone, my techniques, sight-reading skills, aural skills too~ for these 3 years of new year resolution , i been putting this in my list, LOL
- Hoping nothing goes wrong in my life, whether is it school, band or friendship~ (really hope so, though it's hard larh~)
- Anyone in my life (meaning people who i know) to be healthy and safe :)
Gosh, 2011 is ending soon, next year 4E2'12, OMG seriously time pass so damn freaking fast larh!!!!
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